Wendy asked his question the other day. How to balance work and family, with or without children. While I think that everyone figures out what works for them and their family, I wanted to share what has worked for me. What follows is my comment to Wendy.
Have a great weekend!
1. Abandon Perfection (overrated, unattainable, bad model for Sophia)
2. Abandon Guilt (counterproductive, serves no purpose, stupid)
3. Abandon Toxic and Unsupportive People. Seek out advice from people you respect. Don’t listen to the chatter of people you don’t respect.
4. Food shop for all weekday dinners over the weekend — check this out — www.sixoclockscramble.com — I swear by this!
5. Housekeeping is good if you can swing it.
6. The only constant is change, so embrace the craziness. It’s always crazy, just different.
7. Remember that despite the media’s fascination/slamming of working moms, many (probably even the majority) moms work.
8. Develop friendships with people in your neighborhood and close by. You will need each other now for companionship and you’ll all need each other when your kids are school age.
9. There are many ways to do this working-mom thing — there is no right or wrong. Trust your instincts.
10. Try to keep up with the laundry. Tears are shed only when there are mountains to wash.
11. Accept help and do not criticize. The world will not come to an end if the dishwasher is not loaded the right way (okay, so I’m projecting.)
xoxoxox